By Natalie Bright
Through out life, isn’t it strange how the simplest experiences can stun us with a jolt of memory? More often than not, it seems this is connected to a significant loss. I walked into a welding shop eight years after my father had passed on and the smell brought tears to my eyes.
LOSS OF A CHILD
The loss of a child has an even longer impact and today I’m blogging about the loss of a baby. If you are suffering from this devastating grief, just know that you have more strength than you might realize. Good days and bad days are in your future, and you’ll make it through. I’m sure you’ve already noticed that every day occurrences can knock you to your knees.
For me, it’s playground equipment and the beginning of school. Every year around this time I keep thinking I should be buying three sets of school supplies instead of just two. And playground equipment always reminds me of the things our sweet baby will never experience.
When I asked my friend Joe Stevens to take a picture of abandoned playground equipment for the cover of a book I was writing, I mentioned that he had about a month before I finished the final edits. The very next day, he drove to an abandoned rural school yard one evening after work. Out of only eight pictures, this was one of them:
The haunting symbolism in this picture resonated with me, from the beam of the setting sun shining at the top of the slide, to the dead weeds at the end of the slide where a parent might be standing. His gift and talent to capture that image at that exact time makes me realize how fragile life is. A split second, and the photo would be lost and still life goes on. You must continue too.
WORDS OF HOPE
For words of hope and healing after the loss of a baby, my book GONE NEVER FORGOTTEN is now available for Kindle at amazon.com. Based on my experience, I’m offering words of hope and poems to lift you during the bad times. From my heart to yours.